pehle to yeh batao ke jaan ker aisa kar rahi ho ya sach much hi samaj nahi aa rahi meri posts ki ? :roll: aur baat ko kahan se kahan ghuma diya apa ne .. acha to aap ke kehne ke mutabiq .. jo apney sath ho ..wohi experience hota hai .. baki jo ankhon se dekho ya kanon se suno .. wo sab kia hota hai phir ?

kis ne kaha k sirf lerkian roti hain i have seen plenty of boys who also cry as much gurls do and i have also seen many gurls who r emotionally much more stronger than u guys its proven thing that gurls are emotionally much more stronger than boys... check out the statistics of heart attack ration.. there wud b more cases of males as compared to females :)

Bala ki ziddi maloom hoti hain aap. Is pe kehtay hain Rassi jal gayee par bal na gaya... U said: Kuin nahii kartii sab kartii hein app ko girls ki life ka kiya maloom.. 1st tell me this Boys her cheez mein perfect hein aur Girls nahii If Kama kay latay hoo toh wohi girls paka kar deti hein toh khatay hoo werna paisay toh nahii khatay app log ya apni Job. yeh kesay pata chal jata hai phir k duniya ko pata hai and app ko nahii pata...Larki ko pata hai k app ko pata chal chuka hai toh uss beechri ko devar kay sath apna sar marnay ki kiya zaroorit app logon nay kon sa sun kar amal kar lena hai Mujhay sirf itna pata hai ke main jab bhi bahar nikal jaata hoon mujhay 50% larkiyaan baghair parday ke dikhai deti hain, 40% ke paas dopatta hota hai lekin woh galay main haar ke taur pe use karti hain. Jo 10% reh gayeen unki qadar main hi nahin, awara se awara larka bhi karta hai. Unki chupi hui shakhsiyat main woh waqar hota hai ke baqol shair: "Uthi hui awara nigahoon ko jhuka dey..." Lekin afsos aisi misaalain ikka dukka hi milti hain... Larkay perfect nahin hotay lekin unhain agar koi cheez perfect bana sakti hai tou woh aurat hi ke roop hain, maa, behn, biwi & beti ki soorat main. Mujhay batain kyun aaj ki maa ne Imam Ghazali (RA), Salahuddin Ayubi (RA) aur Imam Abu-Hanifa (RA) jaisay jayyad mard paida karna chhorr diyey??? Aur kamatay bhi apnay liyey nahin hain, bohot be-tuki misaal di cooking ki. Saari duniya main jo itnay hotels khulay huay hain wahan kya female cooks hoti hain??? Mard hi hotay hain, cz woh kar saktay hain... Aur larkay aapas main bohot gehray dost hotay hain, woh larkiyon ki tarhaan apni batain chupatay nahin. Unhain doston se hi pata chalta hai sab. Woh amal kartay hain, basahrt yeh ke aap un pe apni marzi thopnay ki koshish na karain. Cz larka bil-aakhir larka hai, he is elected to supervise women by Allah... U said: Kuin Girls kaam nahii kartii kiya?App nay kiya kabhii kisi girl ko Job katay nahii dekha kiya?Even app kay office mein hoon ghi girls.Jirkiya denay wala kon hai un ko U Boys. Koi girls ko nahin jhirakta, yehi tou rona hai. Achay khasay eligible larkay job ke intezaar main kharay hotay hain aur aik shokh & chanchal larki jisko sirf apnay makeup ka kharcha hi nikaalna hota hai bohot qaleel salary pe appoint ho jaati hai. Batain kis ne haq diya hai inko ke hamaray liyey survival ke rastay masdood kar dain??? U said: Yeh battien If Girl Ghar ka kaam karay toh prob..Job karay toh prob...Novels parh lein toh prob..Mujhay yeh battien app girls ki kis cheez kay sath prob nahii hai. Lagta hai aap ne Sahabiyaat-e-karaam ki zindagi ka muta`ala nahin kiya warna yeh baat karti hi na. Zara parhain Banuaan-o-Tahaarat (RA) ke baray main tou pata chalay ke woh job bhi kaisay kiya karti theen, unka mutaala bhi kya hota tha. Aur ghar bhi kitni khoobi se sambhalti theen... U said: Hum mantay hein ALLAH ke waliyon se be bhool hoo jati thee but woh uss say sabak hasil kartay thay na ka uss ko bar bar repeat kartay thay... App ki aik ghalti ko hum kitni dafa maaf karien..Limits b kuch hoti hai aik kaam ki. Aik baar muaf karna hota hai bus us main bhi agar larkay ki self respect ko majrooh kiya jaey tou woh doobara wohi harkat sirf apnay inteqam ki taskeen ke liyey karta hai... U said: If Lakra Subha 8:00 bahay jaye gha aur 12:00 bajay ghar aye gha toh woh koi expect kar raha hoo gha kay sara din app ka ghar sambhalay and then app ki khushamad b karay..App log b if time per jayoo and time per wapis ayoo toh woh b app ko khush rakhay ghi...koi larki apna ghar khud tabbah nahii kartii acha na Kuin kay larki ki apni sisters and mum hoti hein soo uss ko samajh hoti hai kiya rishtay hotay hein yeh...wesay b tali aik hath say nahii bajti Phir wohi baat ke aap apni kam ilmi ki saza hamain aur khud ko de rahi hain. Kis ehmaq ne keh diya ke ghar ka nazm-o-nasq sambhalna aurat ka kaam hai. Yeh bhi mard hi ki zim-e-daari muqarrar ki hai Islam ne. Ap ko itni royal life mayassar hai tou kis ne kaha hai itnay bakheron main uljho. Aur apka matlab yeh hai ke jis ke liyey banda 8 se 12 tak kama raha ho woh thaka haara ghar ayey tou ap usko lift hi na karain!!! Phir tou obviously woh idhar udhar jhankay ga hi... U said: Haan na if app 50% time friends and 50% larki ko dein toh Relations theek rahay gha and larki ko b koi prob nahii hoo ghi with ur friends.Girls ko toh ajjkal 10% time nahii detay aur expect kartay hoo un say loyalty and love. Meray doston main 7 log aisay hain jo raat 12 bajay se DJUICE pe apni apni FRIENDS ko time daina start kartay hain tou fajar kar daitay hain. Phir bhi unki friends ko shikwa rehta hai ke time nahin daitay. Mera aik dost neend poori na honay ki waja se hospitalize ho gaya isi chakkar main. Aba batain kis pe bharaas nukaloon main??? U said: Cyberthunder plz Think before Ink..itnay b boys ALLAH miyan ki gaye nahii hotay kay phans jatay hein...Toh kuin uss kay sms ka ans kartay hoo kuin uss ko balance detay hoo... Yehi tou kamzori hain hum becharon main. Emotional ho jatay hain bohot jaldi. Allah ki gayey nahin hotay lekin jab koi larka hi unhain samjhane ki koshish karta hai tou unki aqal khabt ho jaati hai, main ne khud 1 larki ko laakh samjhaya, koshish ki ke woh aik flirt larkay ke chakkar main na par sakay par un ki tou matt maari gayee thi. Ab pachta rahi hain, aur had tou yeh ke mujh se bhi ta`aluq qata kar diya sirf is SHAK ki bina pe ke main bhi involve hoon. Baghair mujhay safai ka mauqa diyey. U said: Ajj tak kisi larki nay jo family mein rehti hoon kisi boys say hotel say khana order nahii karwaya uss kay bahii hotay hein ghar mein la kay denay walay Orite..zara yeh battien kon sa male sweeper ghar ki safai karta hai...app logon nay toh girls ko itna gira diya hai kay app samjhaty hoo un ka chakar sweeper say b hoo gha..Shame on u Boys.. Oh mohtarma!!! Mera ishara bhaiyon ki taraf hi tha... Larkay bhi sweeping kartay hain, infact offices main zyada tar male sweepers hi hotay hain. Aur pata nahin kaun se neech khandanon main is qism ke shak kiyey jatay hain larkiyon pe, yeh ap ne anokhi hi kahi... U said: Mein nay kahi show off nahii kara but mujhay b Maloom hai kay Programming kesay hoti hai... Goya ap bhi engineering se taluq rakhti hain. Tabhi kahoon itni ardiyal kaisay hain aap!!! U said: If Hum kay ronay ka asar nahii hota app per toh Yeh Mr Bunty nay kis khushi mein topic bana dala on girls k why they Cry.. Bunty ko kya pata tha uska topic itna hit ho jaey ga. Ab woh khud soch raha hoga band karnay ka. Waisay aap is baat se inkaar nahin kar sakteen ke larkiyan roti bohot hain, chahay waja ho k na ho... U said: App ki poori Post he aik Joke thee Aur yeh jo app nay word likha hai iss say he maloom chal raha hai k app boys Ko Ladies ki kitni Respect hai... Yeh respect wali baat alaehda post main define karain zara. Mera (balkay isi forum ke achay khasay members ka bhi) khayal yeh hai ke main Ladies ka bohot ehtraam karta hoon, aur agar kisi ko tanz karta hoon tou us main bhi aik naseehat posheeda hoti hai... U said: Mujhay jaha lagay gha wrong baat hoo rahii hai mujhay wahin post karni hai mujhay maloom hai aur b topics hein in this board but wahan app ko jawab b mil rahay hein but yahan koi girl nahii thee jo app ko jawab day iss liye mein yahan ayii...wahan ghalt baat hoo ghi mein wahan b jayoon ghi... Yeh tou khair apki marzi pe munhasir hai ke kis topic pe jawab daiti hain aur kis pe nahin. Meri taraf se khuli daawat hai... Waisay is thread se aur kuch nahin, Board ke moderators ko tension ho chuki hogi ab tak...Bahr haal, ghaur kijyey ga aur mujhay hawalay ke saath bataiyey ke kidhar main ghalat hoon aur kidhar ap...

Is se kisko inkaar hai, in larkiyon ki waja se hum becharay duniya ki har beemari ka shikaar hotay hain. Inko khush rakhnay ke chakkar main 50, 60 main hi zindagi haar detay hain aur yeh 80, 90 years tak na shukri kar ke rukhsat hoti hain...

kool!!! app logo ne tangain hi itni jaga phunsai hoti hain jis ki tension le k juldi murtay ho ager mene marna hota tu me app jese admio ko un ki bhari jawani me hi tupka deyti

Bijli: Yeh jo ap ne 2 lines main jawab diya hai tou kya main yeh samjhoon ke main ne jo qaseeda apke jawab main likha hai woh hatmi hai aur aap haar tasleem karti hain??? Sabi: Yeh kya na-shaista zabaan likhi hai??? Apko maloom hai mujhay India, uski tehzeeb aur us se juri hui har cheez se kitni koft hoti hai... Roshni: Janab hamain ap khawateen ki ja-baja khwahishaat ki takmeel ke liyey har jaga pair phansana parta hai warna ap ki naz bardariyan kaun uthaey ga??? Aur agar ap jaisi larkiyon ko wohi power de di jaey jo mardon ko mili hai tou ap tou duniya main aik banda bhi salamat na chorain (xcluding ONE jisay koi aur maar de gi)...

thanx maria... dun worry yeh inki purani adat hai :P